GT: Lovelife
January 13th, 2011 | Author: kim
After being married for nearly 12 years, I can’t think of any resolution to make my marriage better.
Despite the fact that my husband and I have only one thing in common, that is, love for food, we don’t fight. Maybe because we don’t have anything to fight about, like what to watch on TV, sports or soap opera, (I don’t watch TV), or basketball team to support.
I am proud to say that in 12 years of being married, we never had any serious fight except for petty quarrels common to marriages. In line of this, maybe I should just continue with how I handle my end of the relationship.
(1) I will keep on giving him the freedom to be himself not someone I want him to be (a wide reader for instance), (2) to trust his judgement on things beyond my comprehension (like technical matters) (3) to be supportive of things that I know are important to him (like his family) and (4) to trust his fidelity as he trusts mine (I don’t check his wallet, cellphone or working bag).
Marriage is one thing. Successful marriage is another… Your marriage is what you make it.
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ang galing mo mag-maintain ng marriage, sis! more blessings to both of you!
btw, hindi pa pala ako follower ng blog na ito kaya I followed you here. thanks for the regular visits!
very well said kim. congrats on your 12 years in marraiage. still counting and more blessings. cheers!
Same here I don’t check his wallets, or cellphone for me its invading his privacy while they have the right for it. Thanks for dropping by
that is truly inspirational! i wish all relationships were more like yours, maybe we won’t have so much heartbreak in this world. kudos to you and your husband!